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Are you ready to work on what is keeping you from reaching your most optimal levels of human performance?

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DeStefano Sport Psychology is dedicated to assisting athletes in overcoming mental obstacles and achieving their maximum potential We firmly believe in a comprehensive approach that takes into account each athlete's individual psychological needs and goals.

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About DeStefano Sport Psychology

At DeStefano Sport Psychology, Rich specializes in optimizing athletic performance by integrating cutting-edge sport psychology techniques with personalized consulting. The focus is on enhancing mental skills, fostering resilience, and promoting overall well-being for athletes.

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June 2026-Hillhouse HS Girls Track and Field Team wins the Connecticut State Championships!

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DeStefano Sport Psychology offers sport psychology consultations. The type of mindset we aim to facilitate is a positive one. Athletes that leave sport psychology sessions are athletes who refuse to let outside distractions negatively impact them, the competitors that are goal-driven, and determined to pursue greatness. The individuals who do not run away from adversity or challenges; those who run toward giants.If the athlete does not have this mentality yet, fine; let's get there together. We want to help them achieve that warrior attitude by forming a strong relationship and creating a personalized strategy to compete at their highest level.
One goal is to provide high quality sport psychology services to athletes of all ages, levels of competition, and cultures at an affordable price.

  • 50 minute consultations: $100

  • 3- 50 minute consultations:$275

  • 5- 50 minute consultations: $450

    ***Team Workshops $400-$500

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About Rich DeStefano

Rich DeStefano

Consultant/Owner

         Rich is a committed expert holding a Master's degree in Sports Psychology. He has inspired thousands of athletes to conquer both physical and mental obstacles, revealing their true potential. Through his knowledge and support, athletes have reached significant milestones in performance and personal development. Rely on Rich to enhance your game and accomplish your aspirations.

         Rich earned his Bachelor's degree in Exercise Physiology and his Master's degree in Psychology specializing in Sports Psychology. Rich made it his mission in life to help athletes of all calibers and various sports overcome obstacles that hindered one in achieving a higher level of athleticism in sport. The skill sets that Rich has obtained over the course of his athletic career were instrumental in quailifying for both the 2000 and 2004 US Olympic Trials in Track and Field. He has shared his expertise across the country in colleges, high schools, clubs, and even the US Olympic Training Center in California. Come see for yourself what dozens of All-Americans did or are currently doing to excel in sport.

Sport Psychology            Workshops 

Workshops are designed in 60 or 90 minutes and tailored to help individual athletes, teams, parents and coaches learn the following techniques and strategies:

  • Attitude

  • Motivation

  • Goals and Commitment

  • Self-talk

  • Mental Imagery and Visualization

  • Dealing Effectively with Anxiety

  • Dealing Effectively with Emotions

  • Concentration

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The Body Achieves What the Mind Believes

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Discover what athletes have to say about their experiences with DeStefano Sport Psychology.

Welcome to DeStefano Sport Psychology, where Rich is dedicated to unlocking the full potential of athletes through expert sport psychology consulting. The mission is to empower athletes at all levels to achieve peak performance, mental resilience, and holistic well-being.

Testimonials

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“Rich has helped me immeasurably by teaching me to be confident and to trust in my training. I have learned that I control my outcomes.”

-Mackenzie: Connecticut State Open Champion

 

​“Sport psychology sessions really helped me when my confidence was at its lowest. It was an eye opening experience that allowed me to uncover the outside issues that were affecting my performance. It immediately improved not only my performance by my well-being as well.”

-Marisa: NEC Finalist and Division I athlete (Sacred Heart)

"Mr. DeStefano’s sport psychology workshop helped me overcome a mental block that I had struggled with for months. A deeper understanding of the event brings challenging questions, and coach gave me the ability to find answers."

-Joe: Big East Finalist and Division I athlete (UCONN)

“Rich’s Team Building Workshop designed for our men’s and women’s track teams was great. The athletes really enjoyed the experience and they felt it made a big difference in building self-esteem and team camaraderie.” 

-Gary: 12x State Open Champion and NCAA Division I athlete (Kansas State)

"In just a few sessions with Mr. DeStefano he helped me to reset so I could take control of my training sessions and competitions. The new confidence and mental preparedness the sport psychology sessions gave me helped me in both athletics and also in life." -Elise

"I started working with Rich after 4 months of bedrest after surviving near death sepsis leaving me with a amputated toe and inability to walk. He focused on finding my baseline and started building my core strengths needed for standing. In 8 weeks, (three 1 hr. sessions per week) I've gained flexibility to dress myself and do without a slide board. I can now raise my hands above my head, do bridges , and leg lifts. Using my walker now to 60 ft.  His cautious stretches and exercises have brought me thus far. Without Rich's nurturing I could not have made this point.  Given 4 months of bed rest,  I expect 8 months to a year before walking. I now have every bit of confidence in walking again, thanks to Rich's training methods.

-David "Lucky to be Alive" Hilton

 

"After a month of personal training sessions I recognized noticeable changes physically and emotionally. Both my endurance and strength improved, even at 92.  I recommend Rich to anyone who wants to work on fitness and physique.  His attitude changed my attitude and I look forward to my 3 sessions a week.  He is very skilled and professional."

- L. Thompson: 4:30 minute miler at NCAA Division I (Yale)

 

 "I met Rich in 2013 at the Connecticut Masters Championships. He spotted me throwing the javelin and offered his services. This was the best choice I made as a javelin thrower. He’s helped add over 20 feet to my PR. I’ve won medals at several national meets and a silver at the 2016 World Track and Field Championships. I firmly believe I could not have done this without his guidance not only in my technique but in my strength, power, flexibility, conditioning and drills.  His enthusiasm, encouragement and wise words are equaled by the great wealth of knowledge that he has about proper technique and training. He is a great coach and friend."

-Clay Dennis: Silver medalist at 2016 World Masters Track and Field Championships

 "It wasn’t in the script.  Without warning, I had a ruptured brain aneurysm.  When I awoke from a coma after 18 days, a feeding tube provided nourishment as I couldn’t swallow; double vision was my norm; I had difficulty lifting a mere pound; and, as I didn’t have strength or balance, I first was pushed in a wheel chair until I graduated to a walker in order to return home after 3 months. For Christmas, my brother and his wife gave me a two month membership in a gym, a fitness center.  I had never stepped foot in a gym in my life!  It was there I met Richard DeStefano, and I’ve never looked back!  Balance, coordination and vision challenges remain even after all this time.  Some time ago I determined that I wanted to participate in my life.  So, Rich asked me what things I wanted to do.  Then, he developed a fitness plan, an exercise regimen that would help me achieve those things. He answers my questions. Gradually, some things have gotten heavier and harder.  Some things haven’t changed.  But, through it all, Rich has been encouraging:  Non-judgmental and encouraging.  He insists I have done the work.  He’s right.  But like an able conductor, he has modified and orchestrated a workout that has enabled me to participate in my life. Because of Rich, I have the strength and balance to ride independently in a therapeutic horseback riding program.  Because of Rich I have the coordination needed to effectively row a shell in an adaptive rowing program.  I am able to visit places I haven’t seen before, train 3 dogs in order to work in a pet therapy program, search for some kind of meaning and purpose, and to achieve some independence.  Life now is good….different than what I would have envisioned, but good.  Thank you, Rich."

-Becky Caldwell: Brain Aneurysm survivor

Working with Rich has been Rich has been tremendous for me. Simply due to the fact I used to have constant pain in my shoulders.  It wasn't good for my recreational basketball games, playing with my kids or my golf game.  I have gained lots of strength for my golf game and am pain free.

- Lincoln: Amateur golfer with a 5 handicap

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The journey doesn't stop! This year's head strong athletes include  Danbury High School, Southern Connecticut State University, Trinity College, Bethel High School, Wilton High School, Woodland High School. Are you ready to see what others are doing to excel in sport today?

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